Let’s Talk Adoption Blog

What are adoptees saying about adoption today? Visit Let’s Talk Adoption blog first before you write the $30,000 check.

Did you know adoption agencies, their partners and patrons have always led the discussion on adoption? This forum has been set up to give the experts in the field—individuals who have lived adoption (aka adoptees)—the opportunity to answer questions based on lived experiences. We welcome questions from adoptive parents, foster parents, and applicants seeking to adopt. Did you know adoption facilitators are now charging up to $75,000 per child (depending on the child’s race) and the industry in and of itself now runs into the billions annually? (over 5 billion in 2013 just in the United States). Instead of paying hundreds and thousands of dollars in classes, training, and lifelong fees required by industry profiteers, we advocate for you to obtain the insight needed from the experts—so you can make an informed choice. This is an open and public forum courtesy of Adoption Truth and Transparency Worldwide Network.

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Reviews from Readers Favorite:

Janine Myung Ja’s Adoptees: We Are Not Who They Think We Are is an informative and revealing book that deals with the social issue of inter-country adoption. An adoptee herself, the author certainly knows what she’s writing about. This is a book that tries to collect the various stories of adopted children from Korea, Africa, India, and other countries, ending up in cultures and countries that are a world apart from where they originally come from. It also exposes the problematic adoption system that leaves some adoptees deprived of their basic human rights. Designed to inform all adoptees of their emotional and legal rights, this book tackles an issue that is mostly neglected by lawmakers from all over the world. And these are highly interesting and revealing stories that the whole world should know about!” ~ Reviewed by Maria Beltran

Janine advocates for the right of adoptees to retain their own documentation, not to have their previous existence ‘wiped out’ by the stroke of a bureaucratic pen… Janine calls upon adoptees and readers, in fact, to trust themselves and their instincts, to open their minds and to value themselves, not to look to others for validation. …Janine is a staunch and passionately vocal advocate for the rights of adoptees… This book will make you reconsider what you thought you knew about adoption.” ~ Reviewed by Fiona Ingram

This is a book that looks at an entirely different side of the world of adoption. While many people think that they are saving these children, who would otherwise be entirely unwanted or neglected, there is an epidemic of adoption trafficking and children who have been ripped from the arms of loving and caring parents for a completely new life. The stories of these children and what their lives have become, whether with a healthy and happy home or a traumatic and dangerous one, are stories that need to be told…” ~ Reviewed by Samantha Dewitt (Rivera)

“Including personal background information as well as story excerpts from other interested parties, Janine Myung Ja does not resort to an angry diatribe in Adoptees. Rather, she presents a compelling, rational, highly-researched foundation for advocating an evolutionary appraisal of the adoption world, followed by an equal inclusion of adoptee voices in creating positive change in the system… Prepare to have your comfortable preconceptions challenged. Plan to be grateful for these highly illustrative writings of Janine Myung Ja.” ~ Reviewed by Joel R. Dennsted

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